It's hard to believe we've been back from our holiday in the US for almost 6 weeks! And sadly i'm just now getting time to blog about it. Better late than never, right?! We left the first part of December for our big trip home (my home anyway) to the US. Last year when I went home for christmas my dad and I had devised a plan to surprise my mom, so this year I was bound and determined to surprise my dad! We originally told my dad we were going to arrive on Saturday, December 10th however really we booked our tickets to arrive on that Friday. I know, I know...not a huge surprise but he is a hard man to surprise. Overall all our trip there was ok, as ok as a 14 hour flight, 6 hour layover and another 4 hour flight can be. I think we counted, our total trip time door to door was 28 or 29 hours. But it was worth every minute! I guess the biggest challenge was not sleeping, neither of us could sleep on the long flight. I think I slept maybe 30 minutes to an hour, I think I was too excited to sleep! By the time we arrived in LA we were so tired, thankfully we slept most of the flight to Memphis. When we arrived in Memphis my mom and brother were there to get us. For those of you who have never been to the Memphis airport it is probably one of the ugliest airports with this terrible brown, shiny brick everywhere and it always seems to have the same smell...but it felt like HOME! We decided to have my dad meet us out for dinner with my auntie Amy and her boyfriend Pete who were also in town for the holidays. We of course chose Mexican food because you just can't get that here! My dad showed up after a few minutes and needless to say I think we surprised him! He said he thought something was up because I was suppose to email him before we left Sydney and I never sent him my itinerary...excuses, excuses!
As soon as we got to Memphis we hit the ground running! We got to attend my childhood church our first Sunday morning there. It was so wonderful to see so many familiar faces and get lots of hugs! I got to see my best friend Bethany and meet her adorable little girl, finally! During our first week we headed to east Texas to visit with some of Ben's friends from when he lived there 10 years ago. It was so good to finally meet them after hearing so much about them. We got to see all the sights of Nac and even saw the house where Ben lived. I was able to meet up with one of my friends from college that lives in Lufkin, it was really good to catch up with her and chat all about being newlyweds! I hated that it had to be such a short trip, but it was worth it! The day we returned from Texas was also when one of my best friends Marie and her husband Brad came into town from Colorado for wedding reception. Marie had come out to Australia for our wedding but she was only there for 4 days so it was good to finally be able to spend more time together catching up. We ran around town like crazy getting things ready for our reception and had a lot of family and friends arriving in town! The Saturday morning of the reception we had my family, my Texas family (you know who you are!) and my 3 best girl friends over for an amazing brunch cooked by Marie's husband Brad who is a chef. I have to say that was probably one of my favorite moments of the entire trip was having so many of my favorite people in the world all in one place. Later that evening we had our Memphis wedding reception or as I like to call it wedding extravaganza part 3 or as my father has named it the Ben and Lindsey world wedding tour, the last stop. My mother and her friends did an INCREDIBLE job transforming the lobby of my parents church into a rustic, winter wonderland. My mother had been "pinning" ideas for our reception on her pinterest board for months and no lie, our reception looked just like her board. I am blown away by all the little details and hard work and her friends did. It truly was my "other" dream wedding! Not many girls get to wear the wedding dress twice and have more than one wedding celebration, we are so blessed to have been able to share it with all of our loved ones. The evening was perfect, the food was delicious, and the time spent with friends and family was priceless. If you want to see pictures from the night you'll have to check out facebook.
The rest of our trip was spent visiting with friends and family, shopping...lots of shopping, sightseeing and of course Christmas! We did make a quick day trip to Little Rock, but it was nowhere near enough time to show Ben my "home" so i'm thinking we'll just have to make another trip one day soon! Our Christmas was wonderful. It was our first Christmas together and it was so special to be able to spend it with my family that we don't get to see very often.
Its hard to sum up our almost 3 week long holiday in just so many words. The trip for me was much needed, I was very ready to have a dose of home and to be able to show my hubby the life I had there before coming to Australia. When you live so far from home and your family you learn some big life lessons, and for me I think I took living so close to my family for so many years for granted, so now the times we do get to spend together mean so much. I love the life we have in Australia, but I miss home a lot.
We arrived back "home" in Australia right before New Years. We were able to spend some time with Ben's family, including his grandmother who went into the hospital while we were away and passed away a few days after we returned. I'm so thankful we were able to see her before she passed away. She was such an incredible woman of faith. I only had the privilege of knowing her for less than a year but I was deeply touched and encouraged by her strong faith and love for the Lord.
Since being back things have not slowed down thats for sure. We quickly settled back into our jobs and home routine. I celebrated 1 year of being at my job, our 6 months of being married and we celebrated Ben's 32nd birthday a few weeks ago! I have spoken with immigration a few times since being back. We will find out if our Partner Visa (which means I will be permanent resident) will be approved this year. There is a 9-12 month wait time. So the earliest we would hear would be May, and August at the latest. However we did find out yesterday that if our Partner visa is not approved by April 11th, that I will no longer be able to work at the school i've been working at. The reason behind that is, when I first came to Australia I came on a working holiday visa which has work restrictions that you could only work at 1 employer for 6 months, now that i'm on a bridging visa the same restrictions from my original visa still apply. I was able to work for a second lot of 6 months after we were married because the time started over when I moved to a bridging visa but unfortunately there is no way around it after this 6 months is up, unless my visa is approved. So, we're praying that it will be approved! Please keep us in your prayers that it will be approved closer to the 9 month mark than the 12 month mark! Also be praying for us as we have a few other big things going on, we'll share when the time is right. And no...we're not pregnant because i'm pretty sure thats what most people would think first. We are very blessed and know that God has a plan for us. We're excited to see what the next season in our life will be and where God will take us!
